To thine own self be true- William Shakespeare.
I've been on this journey of self-discovery for a long, long time and i've accepted that it is a life long journey. I remember when i was 16, i always used to ask myself who i was. I've also been a thinker and given to introspection a lot. There are times when i love myself, but a lot more times when i don't like myself and there are times when i hate myself. The way i see myself sometimes changes depending on the situation i'm in. I don't think that's a good thing. The concept of who i am at my core should be solid and no circumstance should be able to sway or change that.
Do I really know who I am?
Have i accepted and embraced all that i am?
Have i discovered and uncovered all that lies within?
Or do i sometimes wish to be something or someone i can never be?
As i continue on my journey through life, i promise to always be true to myself. To embrace the person that i am and love being me because no body else can be better at being me than i can. I will continue to be myself because for one thing, everybody else is taken.
I'm still trying to find a balance on a lot of things in my life. So i might need to separate, clear my head, re-group and come back. It might take a day or it might take a week, but it definitely won't be long. This blog remains my free therapy and my sanctuary. I'm thankful for that and i'm especially thankful for all my readers including the silent ones. I appreciate the support and love i get from blogsville.
In the mean time, you can find me on Blog(s)Ville Gist and i will be doing an interview for The Nigerian Blog Awards sometime this week. So watch out for that.
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Or do i sometimes wish to be something or someone i can never be?
ReplyDeleteBut why? You should never say never. :)
All the best on your self-searching!
hmm...we all need to take time to rediscover ourselves. So, best of luck, sweetie. Come on back when you are ready.
ReplyDeleteCome back whenever you've sought things out dear and we will still be here waiting for you.
ReplyDeleteWish you all the best.
"i promise to always be true to myself. To embrace the person that i am and love being me because no body else can be better at being me than i can."
ReplyDeleteYou've said it all. We all sometimes go through this stage and often, always end at that point of acceptance of who we are.
Great post.
Loving this.. and oh sweetheart...CONGRATS!!!
ReplyDeleteGot to show you are just human like every other being on this planet earth...am not into all these motivational talks... BUT just LIVE A DAY AT A TIME sweetie...things always have a way of sorting itself out...i know from my past experiences...it is good you are talking about it...the mood disperse faster that way...Also, avoid staying alone at home for a while, socialize & give yourself a long deserve treat. *A BIG H-U-G *...
ReplyDeleteIntrospection...the never-ending journey. Just remember that "happiness is a way of travel, not a destination." Good luck!!
ReplyDeleteFirst off, congratulations on your win over @ NigerianBlogAwards, it's post like these that earned you "Best Personal Blog"
ReplyDeleteTake all the time you need dear.
Introspection is key.
I'll miss you but you know we'll be here whenever you decide to return.
Congratulation Sting...just saw your award...*applause*....*joyful hug*..*grinning from ear 2 ear*.. weldone.
ReplyDeleteTake your time sweetie, we all need it but hope to see you soon. You don't want to do it for too long. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteIndeed 'The unexamined life is not worth living' ~ Socrates... even as you strive to examine, remember that we are not the ones who know ourselves inside out... the Big Man up there helps as always. God bless!
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