Sunday, April 21, 2013

Let's Talk about the Touts on Wives Connection

I am going to write this post, then i think i am going to take a break from blogging and blogs for a while. I was SO tempted to delete my blog yesterday. People who have read my blog for a while know that i do that from time to time usually when i need to focus on school, but this time it would have been for a different reason.

Myne asked me not too long ago if i would stop blogging (or something like that) and i said no, because this is something i actually enjoy doing. However, in the very recent past i think this blog has gotten an expiration date. After the incident on Wives connection when some faceless coward made the comment about me being a trouble maker and you can only blame Ahdaisy if you don't know sting, i was just done. I don't need this. I really don't.

I stopped commenting on that blog because there seems to be a lot of touts, power rangers and minions who visit there and who have a follow-follow mentality. You need to be able to think for yourself and not just jump on a bandwagon. I still read the blog though because it is entertaining. I don't pretend to have answers to people's problems so why bother advising anyone. The only time i ever left a comment since that incident was for the lady whose husband had erectile dysfunction. It was a medical issue and since i have a bit of knowledge on that topic i left a comment.

I was reading the 2 face critique Eya posted yesterday and got to the comments and starting seeing people saying all sorts of crap about me. Ahdaisy was insinuating that i was the one who left a nasty comment for her, and did i not say i was never coming to that blog again (i guess she's the blog rep), and people jumping on the bandwagon and calling me out. I didn't even get to see some of  the nasty comments about Ahdaisy because Eya had deleted them before i got there, but all the comments mentioning me were still up there for my viewing pleasure. I am not a coward and really don't have the time to be leaving anonymous comments for anyone. Apparently, certain people don't like the Ahdaisy chic for whatever reason. I had a problem with ONE comment that she made, i said something about it, and she no longer exists to me. Why would i go and be anonymously leaving her comments. She's a non-issue. Trust me when i say that if i have something to say i will use my blog identity to say it. No one is feeding me, paying my med school tuition and i don't blog for money, so what's that deal here? I'm supposed to be sacred of some random chic who has her own blog but wants to die on someone else's blog? You are so good at giving advice, why don't you set up your blog to do that and maybe make something out of it? You see how people don't have common sense?

Those anonymous commenters who left her those comments should have enough integrity to come back and say they did it, and it wasn't Sting because i don't have time for all that nonsense or for someone who feels that she knows it all. I don't know it all and i don't pretend to, neither do i think i am better than anyone for any reason.

I was motivated to write this post for two reasons. Firstly,  i just read The Salt chronicles (Desperate Naija Woman) where she talked about moderating comments. Eya was the first person to comment on that post and that's why i decided to write this post. She knows the kind of touts that visit her blog because she solicited them from Linda Ikeji's blog, which is why during the MARRIED controversy when someone was mouthing off about how Linda Ikeji's commenters have found their way to Eya's blog, i thought that was laughable. How do you think i found out about Wives Connection? She was actively advertising on there.

Knowing the kind of people who visit your blog with the fact that you allow anonymous comments, doesn't that come with some sort of responsibility to at least moderate comments? Why am i being accused of something that i didn't do, yet you delete certain comments and leave others? If it's all in a bid to generate views and comments, that's fine. In all fairness, I will add that the comments about me were deleted after I sent her an email to complain.

Secondly, there's nothing i hate more than being accused of something i didn't do. As Eya did not address it, I have decided to. Believe me if you like, don't believe me if you like, that's not my problem. I have said what i have to say. Wives Connection touts, please find another target for your nonsense, leave my name out of your mouths and best believe that if i have a comment to make about your master, you will not have to guess who made it. 

Someone was just saying the other day that things have changed since people started blogging for money. This was not the blogging community i knew and liked being a part of. Even when there were disagreements, it wasn't this bad. There's just too much bad blood going around. You don't know who your enemies are. If my blog was something tangible i could pick up and take far away to where no one knows me, trust me i would. Maybe i would have some peace and enjoy blogging again.

I am just turned off by the whole atmosphere. I don't want any comments about this post. Anyone who doesn't like it can kindly kick rocks. I am taking a break and if it wasn't for Lazy grad student, i would delete this blog while i take my break.

Good thing our weight loss competition starts tomorrow. Let me focus my attention on something that is actually going to improve the quality of my life and not all this nonsense. One last chance to join.

P.S I know i called for peace the other day and hopefully this came across as a very peaceful message. Not a single cuss word, lol. I can't even be angry about stupid stuff anymore but that does not mean i will stand back and let people accuse me falsely. Life doesn't work that way, at least not in my side of town. :)

Friday, April 19, 2013

I am going to be a MARRIED woman says comedian Princess

“I am so happy I’m now getting married, I can now proudly wear iro n buba like a Nigerian woman…God bless that young man that picked me and decided to pity me and marry me when I had given up all…I am saying this because I want you all to hear it, God bless him for me for covering up my shame”

This is what happens when you live in a society where a woman is only respected if she is married. I don't blame her for writing this. I am happy that she has found someone to cover her shame (I just cringed writing that). I guess by naija standards she had passed her expiration date.

O ma ga o!

I guess it's not easy becoming a MARRIED woman.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Let there be Peace.....and there was Peace

People, people, people......I don't like what is going on (big picture). I believe in having disagreements where people can state their views, learn from it (and each other), sometimes agree to disagree and move on.

People are genuinely not happy with each other around here, a lot of subs and indirect messages going around, people are not comfortable leaving comments for fear of being attacked.
*coughs* me
There are certain blogs i am not comfortable leaving comments in especially after i have been accused of wanting to destroy their fun blog.
I wanted to stop leaving comments on any blog period, but i was like what the heck.
If i have something to say and i think you are cool people, i will leave a comment. 

My darling sis, Ibhade has stopped allowing comments on her blog and it seems like it's going to be a permanent thing. 

I don't like what i am seeing. I was entertained by it initially but stuff like this stops being fun after a while. 
Naijalines, who was that message to? My amebo radar missed that. LOL.

I know i have been accused of being a troublemaker in the not so distant past. I have never agreed with that label. I am just a very vocal and opinionated person about the things that mean something to me. 
I am still learning to pick my battles and for the most part that has been going good. 

I think we should all bury the hatchet.
Email each other and work things out, 
Let's all be kumbayah again. 

I miss the old blogsville. 
Anyone remember the category B awards? Those were fun. We can't even do that anymore, cos i really don't think blogsville exists anymore and it's turning out to be a bad thing. 
We used to be close and actually liked and supported each other. 

Ok people, kiss and make up. 

I am taking time out of my VERY busy schedule to post this (I have decided to stop slacking).
 So you guys need to listen to me. 
Please and thank you. 

Ah, who am i kidding? 
But i tried. 

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Re: Not-Exciting

Where is the blogsville tatafo when you need her? Since she decided to go MIA, i guess i will fill in for her today.

Simply mee has complained that blogs are BORING these days. Say what now lady? I have taken it upon myself to help you out, sis as i have been quite entertained these last couple of days.

First of all, the ladies over at wives connection stay coming up with all kinds of ....erm dilemmas. LOL. I can't sometimes, i really can't. How do you remove the dark spots on your thighs so your husband can give you head aka eat you out?

 I just think some of these women are beginning to get carried away. LOL. I felt for the lady whose husband has ED, i just had to say something. Yet you see people telling her not to let her husband use viagra as it is addicting and he will have to use it for life. Whatever med school these "doctors" went to, failed them and they need to ask for their money back cos they don't know shit about shit.

Then there has been the natural vs relaxed debate over at Myne's , then Ginger then Naijalines. 

Naijalines has been giving me life. LOL. She has shocked and unshocked me. I'm like this lady ain't playing. Nah ah! She will cut you.

I believe in freedom of choice, people. Freedom of choice. I don't believe that relaxing your hair automatically equals self hate. Life is not that black or white. In sensitive issues like this (not sure why it is so sensitive but it is), i believe that there are less divisive ways to get your valid points across. Certain words are just inflammatory and no one is going to want to listen to you after that. They just zoom in on that word and you have lost them. However, i LOVE the fact that more of my black sisters are embracing the hair that comes out of their head, as is. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that. That is such a good thing and no one can dispute that.

Then there has been Oga Solo and his multiple marriages saga. Now, if only he was honest, this would have simply being a case of polygamy instead of bigamy. The last time i checked Polygamy is still a part of our culture. Dude is ugly sha and likes ugly women (Just saying). Lilian try small, but that's not what this case is about.

Drama!!!! I just be sipping my tea and reading. Beats reading medical stuff, that's for sure.

Lohi created a quinoa recipe for me (and someone else). I can't wait to try it. You guys should check out her food and photography blog. It's so pretty. I love her.

I have been very entertained o. You guys should keep it up.

When you know that all is light, you are enlightened. 

Naija Fatbusters

Our blog is up and running! Yay!

It's very bare bones. I haven't had time to work on it at all but Ms. Lara started us off with a post today.

It's all about healthy living, naija style.

You can still join if you want to, we start on Monday.

Email me if you want to contribute to the blog but don't want to be a part of the weight loss challenge.
cc Mz.T

Monday, April 15, 2013

Why I Hate Med School

Frankly, it sucks! There is nothing pleasurable about this constant forceful acquisition of knowledge.
Is it by force? Apparently, yes!

You want to know what is really doing me right now? The fact that I can't just go watch part 2 of RHOA reunion. I have to sit here and read about shoulder pain and back pain and knee pain and neck pain and ankle pain and arthritis and rheumatism and skin problems and skin wounds. I don't careeeeee.

I went to the thrift store and bought 6 novels this past weekend. It felt good to pretend I was a normal person who had time for leisure reading. I think I still have 2 from last year, that I still haven't gotten to read but I wanted to feel normal, so I bought more. I used to read at least 2 novels every week in undergrad. Le sigh.

I still have 3 chapters, four cases and one online case to do before tomorrow. So the whine fest is officially over. No, I don't feel better or worse.

Weight loss competition is starting next week. Join in now. I might get my sugar daddy to give the winner a price.

My sugar daddy is Jesus, in case you are wondering. Thank you.

Weight loss challenge

If you gave me your email, i have sent an invitation for you to join, so accept it. I am waiting on 6 people to accept their invitations. I wanted us to start today, but since you guys haven't accepted your invites, it doesn't look like we can do that. As soon as everyone is in, we can pick a start date.

Friday, April 12, 2013

Quiz time

Pick the two you would like in a guy/girl in order of importance and why?

I pick good looking and Intelligent.
I am not marrying an ugly or dumb person.
We can go to therapy for his emotional instability. LOL.

Seriously, you guys, i just can't be with an unattractive aka ugly person.
I can't do it.

Blogsville Weight Loss Challenge

Hello lovelies,

Back when we used to have "Blogsville" I started a challenge called Fatbusters where a bunch of us signed up to see who could lose the most weight (and be healthy of course). I don't think i lost any weight to be honest, but some people lost quite a few pounds. BBB and Bumight were talking about it on twitter yesterday and what do you know, I just joined the gym on Monday....I know!!!! Everyone in my life is really healthy, my brother is a runner, my sister has a personal trainer and has lost over 40lbs since she had her baby last year, another sister who is a navy chief is in charge of fitness for the recruits (or something like that) and she just told me she was getting certified to be a personal trainer (I have shared her picture on this blog before). Let's not talk about my 60 year old mother who puts me to shame with how fit she is. I can't even attempt her workout regime. Plus other "people" who won't let me hear word about being physically active. Besides, how are you going to encourage patients to exercise when you are worse than a couch potato.

With all that long story, we have decided to do the Blogsville Weight loss challenge again. I already set up the blog. We have 3 people so far -  Me, Bumight, and BBB. If you are interested in joining, leave your email address in the comment section or email me at, so i can add you as an author to the blog. The only thing you would need is a scale, cos we have to post a picture of our weight every week, to track progress. At the end of three months, the person with the most weight loss wins. I wish i could say you win a prize, but i think being healthy and getting fit is a prize in itself. No starvation diet or fad diets allowed.

I would like this to be done every 3 months where new people can join in, old people can remain if they chose. If you are a fitness expert or you are a healthy and want to contribute healthy living tips to the blog, also send in your email so i can make you an author. I want people to be able to post whatever they think would be helpful to living a healthy lifestyle. Our Nigerian foods are not very healthy cos i think we eat too much carbs, so alternative ways to cook stuff are always welcome. So if you don't want to join in the challenge but want to contribute to the blog, you are welcome also.

As soon as i have between 5-10 people, we will start.

The goal is to get moving and be healthy. I would love some washboard abs. Uh hum!

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Toxic Relationships

You KNOW when you are in a toxic relationship. Period. The End!

All the, what should i do, what should i do questions is just a way to get around the fact that the heart wants what it wants but the brain sometimes knows better. Some of these relationships are like poison where as long as it's in your body, it has to go through your system before you can be free from it. It's either it's coming out of your front end or your back end, but as long as it's in your system there's no escaping. People who are dealing with those kinds of situations are the ones you will advise until you are blue in the face. Everyone in their lives including their dogs can tell them the same thing, but until they see that relationship to the end, whether the end entails their death, loss of sanity or being discarded like yesterday's trash, they won't rest. Some people are lucky enough to get clarity or just get fed up and leave before things get really bad but a lot of them won't. My friend caught her boyfriend with another girl, after embarrassing her and telling her that they were not dating only fucking (his words) even though they had been together for almost 2 years, this chic went to BEG the other chic to please leave the boy for her. LOL. I'm not making this up, she told me herself. The things chics put themselves through all because they want to attain the prestigious MRS degree.

Have you noticed that the people who give the best advice are the worst advice takers? Then never do what they tell their friends to do when they are the ones in the situation. A lot of us are guilty of that. This is why i never listen to anyone who says, If it's me ehn....i would never take that. Please go and sit down somewhere. People never know what they are going to do until they are in a situation. You might be able to do the "right" thing, but sometimes you might not because life is not always black or white.

To all the soldiers of love, i salute you and i wish you good luck. I don't believe love and war should co-exist. I believe that your love should be a place of peace and sanctuary from this crazy world, but what do i know. I'm not saying i don't think couples shouldn't fight or disagree but i don't think any relationship should be a battleground. If you want to be constantly fighting, go join the military.

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Best part of the day....

The best part of my day is whenever i come home in the evenings to a warm apartment that smells nice and at night when i get to lay on my bed and go to sleep. Bliss......

What's your favorite part of the day? 

P.S. You heard it first here, but i think the world is about to come to an end SOON! It's been raining for 3 days straight. Unprecedented. So sinners, stop sinning, we might be needing a Noah's ark re-mix soon. You can thank me when we all get to heaven.

Favorite quote of the week

"Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering."

- Don Miguel Ruiz

Yaaaaasss! I concur! 

Monday, April 8, 2013

Why I LOVVEEEE Med school!

I have lectures all day tomorrow 8am - 5.30pm. We start off with a quiz and we get points for participating throughout the lectures aka TBL aka Team Based Learning. Now! We have readings before each TBL day which is where the quizzes come from. So for tomorrow, I have to read

  1. 8 cases from Casefiles
  2. 4 med U cases which take at least an hour each
  3. 9 articles, 5 of which i definitely have to read before tomorrow
  4. 4 chapters from our textbook
  5. 5 chapters from 2 different health related novels(non-fiction) and we have to come up with 2 questions per chapter and be ready to discuss it in case we are randomly picked. 
Guess who did not start until 1pm this afternoon? Me! 
Guess who is blogging instead of chugging away? Me! 

I have only done 7 of the 8 cases and i just want to be done and go watch Real Housewives of Atlanta Reunion! 

In my defense, i spent the whole day yesterday looking up stuff and writing 3 different papers. Thankfully, they were all 1-2 pages long, but the assignment took at least 4 hours to prepare for each paper. Let's pretend Friday and Saturday never existed because beside doing questions which i do everyday, i don't know what i did with those days, except be sick on Friday and part of Saturday. The winches and wizards of blogsville are after me *cough* But then again, i'm just they are all winches and wizards for Jesus, so i don't have too much to worry about. LOL

Ok! About to go down my third cup of tea today. Let's try green tea this time. I need to show you guys my favorite vanilla spice yogi tea. It's awesome.

I see myself being up till at least 2am. 

MEd school is awesome! 


But i am not complaining..................................too much :)

Sunday, April 7, 2013

How to Get a Man

Some other Lady Virtue videos... This chic is a trip and a half. LOL


Why am i just finding out TODAY that Matthew Crawley died? The writers of Downton Abbey are pushing it and i think i put too much ginger in this beans. It smells really nice though.

Seriously, what is wrong with these people. First Sybill, now Matthew. That is some crazy shit.

Yep, too much ginger or is it the cumin? I think it's the cumin or maybe it's the curry. It tastes really good though, although i shouldn't be eating at this time since only witches eat at night.

Saturday, April 6, 2013

What Women Say To Make Men Leave

This is how i spend my time online. SMH. This dude is crazy. LOL. His name is Bryan Oji (Isn't Oji an Igbo name?)

Here are my week's favorite quotes
"A clay pot sitting in the sun will always be a clay pot. It has to go through the white heat of the furnace to become porcelain. "
- Mildred W. Struven

"Act or accept."
- Anon 

"In any situation, the best thing you can do is the right thing; the next best thing you can do is the wrong thing; the worst thing you can do is nothing."
- Theodore Roosevelt
"We do not learn from our experiences; we learn by reflecting on our experiences."
- John Dewey

"Each night, when I go to sleep, I die. And the next morning, when I wake up, I am reborn."
- Mahatma Gandhi

"We are born different. So be yourself because you are special."
- Anon

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you."
- Lewis B. Smedes

"A belief is only a thought you continue to think. A belief is nothing more than a chronic pattern of thought, and you have the ability -if you try even a little bit- to begin a new pattern, to tell a new story, to achieve a different vibration, to change your point of attraction."
- Esther Hicks

"Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you want."
- Margaret Young

LOL....Madam, Hide your ass is not hiding your ass o! LOL. Is it really that serious? I'm a harmless, fun loving person who likes to speak my mind. Chill! I've moved on, you should too. If you really wanted to give me advice, you didn't have to make a fake account to do so. The same energy it took you to do that, you should have taken it to create a fake email address and emailed me, if your intentions were from a good place. You've said what you had to say, it was baseless. Move on. You are welcome on my blog. I accept all kinds here. 

I am SO amused. LOL. Oh lord, it's not even that serious. 

Friday, April 5, 2013


Nigerian people and drama sha! You guys can now let my blog rest. 
There's nothing else to see here. 
As we were.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Fish Brains

I now have proof beyond a reasonable doubt that a lot of women have fish brains and when it comes to reasoning and comprehension probably are not functioning any higher than JSS3. Quite sad and disappointing actually especially since quite a few of them actually have university degrees. A bunch of educated fools. God forbid, because those are the worst kind. At least if you were an illiterate people can make allowances for you.

I generally like people and find them interesting, but some people are just disgusting. I guess i can't deceive myself anymore and say i don't have haters. LOL. I love it. I'm about to start my 4 day weekend. Woo hoo! How awesome is that. Life couldn't be any better.

For all you bad belle's out there, make una no go die put for my matter o. I'm enjoying my life.

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

This made me laugh

Perfect end to my day!

The biggest lesson i Learnt today.... never to go to clinic with a dirty white coat. It looked clean when i picked it up but as soon as i sat down in clinic, i just kept getting whiffs. It was horrible, especially since i had to see patients and examine them. Checking Eya's blog comments kept me entertained during the few down times i had. I guess it's a good thing that i don't need validation from anyone and as long as you are not close family, i really don't care if you like me or not. I saw a comment i didn't think was cool and i stated my opinion on it. Ahdaisy aka Adviser Nowamagbe was the one who took the insults personal by telling me i had an inferiority complex. If that's not an insult, i don't know what is. This is for you, the unintelligent anonymous who said i insulted her first by calling her an idiot. When they said you should focus in school and gain comprehension skills, you refused. I guess it's too late now, you have my eternal pity.

As for the person who accused me of leaving anonymous comments, that is very laughable. So i leave comments under my blog name and then leave anonymous comments also? Really? You must think i am so jobless. I guess it's hard to fathom that other people might have a problem with that chic. God forbid anyone else has an issue with her, no it has to be all Sting. Now i see why people are afraid to say their true opinions on blogs and rather go with the crowd. I could have as well gone the anonymous route when i left my initial comment, but i stand behind my opinion 100%. No one is feeding me so why should i be scared to say what is on my mind. If i am wrong, i will be the first to apologize because i don't have unnecessary pride.

Now this comment....
You only blame our Ahdaisy when you don't know Sting, Sting is trouble. If Ahdaisy is weak minded, Sting can chase her out of this our fun blog. #TruthIsBitter

When i read it, my initial reaction was to burst out laughing, then i got pissed the fuck off. I would like to know when i became trouble and started chasing people off blogs. This comment is implying that i am a bully and a troublemaker and i take offence to that. It is an attempt to rubbish my opinion and relegate me to the "oh don't mind her and her wahala" box. Not so? No wahala. To whoever left this comment, get ready. You want to talk about trouble, you will see trouble anywhere you enter. That's how people open their existence to bad karma. You asked if i had ever being to church in my whole life. Since you know me so well, you should answer that question your damn self. I guess God only exists inside churches .You will probably be the first in line to hell way before i get there.

Maybe i am so self unaware and don't know that i am a troublemaker. I would like to know who i have troubled in the last 2 years. The last time i remember being a part of any blog drama was the gay issue, so what is this fool talking about? I'm not supposed to have an opinion, or you would prefer i hide under the cowardly anonymous like you? What is it? Like i said just watch your life and your big mouth. Make sure you come back and tell me how you like it.

This is the comment that pissed me off. The last line of the comment actually. It took me aback and i had to read it like a couple of times to make sure i was understanding right.

nyway, have you met his family? Has he met yours? Is he interested in your future? Do you make any plans about the future together? Have you discussed kids even if its indirectly? What does he introduce you to his friends as, wife? Girlfriend? As far as Nigerian men are concerned, they both mean the same thing. Does he say "meet my fiancĂ©" or 'na my wife be this'? Cos the latter means he is just trying to make you feel happy with yourself, meanwhile nothing o.. How did he propose? “Baby, marry me na"? Again that dnt mean sh*t!

My husband told me some days after we met that he was going to marry me. As in he said, 'you are my wife' like two days after we met. I finally agreed to marry him 1yr 6 mnths later. I so do not believe in short courtships. Some people say it worked for them. For me, it's too risky. I also dnt believe in extra long courtships. So maybe you were a little desperate or carried away by some of his paparazzi. So now that your eye have clear small, start asking the right questions. 

It might be he did not drop the key cos there are several skeletons having a blast in his closet. Or maybe it's nothing, . But I dunno. There are some mistakes we just have live with. 

Dnt abort the child, you are old enough to take care of it. Have a talk with the dude and see where he stands before you bring up pregnancy, if you are preggers. His response will determine whether you have entered one chance or not.

I dunno sha, I am better at advising MARRIED Women.

 After writing this epistle of a comment, you then finish with I am better at advising MARRIED women, and someone wants to tell me that is not a sub?!!! If it was an innocent comment, why write in it caps. Come the fuck on. It wasn't necessary and it was very condescending. Let's call a spade a spade.

Let me end by saying, i think it is very interesting that after Eya started moderating comments, she approved ALL the comments bashing me but the one comment i left responding to the above anonymous, where i pretty much said she should ask herself the church question since she knows me so well, she didn't approve the comment. Noted. No wahala. You guys can keep your "fun" blog where all the people with marital and relationship woes come to fellowship. It must be a lot of fun to read such stories every freaking day.

It's a good thing i have a blog abi? I think my space is big enough to accommodate me and my wahala since Sting is trouble. It's good, i like it like that because i am not afraid to say the truth and i will not be kissing  anyone's ass.

Let me give anyone who feels they want to discredit and label me incorrectly a friendly warning, i will not take it lying low. If you don't like me, sucks for you. That's your headache. Please don't come to this blog anymore, actually you are free to come and hate-read and die slowly inside because there actually people who like my blog. If you are one of the people who pretend to like my blog and then say crap about me anonymously, then God is most certainly going to punish you. I don't have to be inside a church to know that and none of you freaking hypocrites have a monopoly on God, so fuck you anonymous and the dead horse you rode in on.

Anyway, what do i expect from a place where a lot of MARRIED Nigerian women congregate. You guys are the architect of a lot of women's misfortunes and your own. You make people who are not married feel less than and drive them into bad marriages, all in their bid to be called wives. SMH.

I remain thankful for my life. God has blessed me.

I am going to go read about hypertension before i get one myself cos of this bullshit.

Some "MARRIED" women bug!

Some women just bug me to no end. Maybe i am having one of those days where my tolerance for bullshit is low, but i just can't today. I read a comment yesterday where this chic on Eya's blog wrote a long ass comment and then ended it with....I am better at advising MARRIED women.

She wrote the married in CAPS exactly how i wrote it and that just annoyed me. I attempted to comment but for some reason the comment box wasn't opening and i left it. Today someone wrote something about her and i decided to write the comment i wanted to yesterday. The take home message from all that banter is that she's an idiot.

Apparently i have an inferiority complex because i am not married.


I am going to go get ready for clinic, maybe i would have cooled off after i come back. I haven't been this annoyed at someone in a long time.
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