Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Let's Play a Game

Okay people, humor me. I'm curious and you can consider it your good deed for the month. For those of you who have read my blog for a while (or however long) and follow me on instagram (which means you know what i look like),  tell me, did your idea of me/ preconceived notion of who i am match what i look like? Did  it change after you saw my picture? etc etc etc. I'm really curious because  I had an experience where i saw a blogger's picture and it did not match what i had imagined. I almost wished I never saw him/her/it (trying to go for gender ambiguity here, don't read any meaning into that).

Another question: What has instagram taught you about me that you wouldn't have guessed by just reading my blog alone.

 Okay, this is not really a game, more like work for you guys but I really want to know, so humor me. Please and thank you.

the former Madam Sting :)

Monday, April 21, 2014


I just took down that post. I really appreciate all the people who took the time to say something to me. It meant a lot to me but it was too real to leave out there. I have wanted to take it down for a while now, but i left it as long as I could.It had 606 views, so if you were meant to see it, you most likely did.  Maybe one day when i'm back to my baseline and i have returned all the fucks given back to their owners, I can continue that conversation.

For now, i'm just chilling and surprisingly finding humor in things that are not in the slightest bit funny.

Sunday, April 13, 2014

Get Fit- join our blog


We (we being the blogsville "community") happen to have a fitness blog which i started and abandoned last year. LOL. Luckily there are more dedicated people who have been keeping the blog going. The blog is for anyone who want to join and share their fitness or weight loss journey and any useful tips. We host challenges from time to time. It can be as good as we want it to be. Email, if you want to be added as a writer on the blog.

Come join naijafatbusters today.

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

On Blogging---- take 2!

First things first - Myne please email your contact details so you can get your heart massager. So you guys can see, i'm the worst person to host a giveaway.

I just started watching the Braxton family values, only because i ran out of bridezilla episodes on netflix and I have been quite entertained by Tamar. She has such an animated personality and is a perfect example of the kind of monster spoiling a last born can create. Her lack of self awareness is amazing but she makes good TV. Anyway, there was an episode where Toni Braxton was talking about not wanting to do music anymore, she doesn't feel it/feel any connection to her fans. It reminded me of how i currently feel about blogging. I think the biggest reason I am no longer interested/motivated to blog is that i have completely lost connection with my readers. I don't even know who my audience is anymore. Nobody likes to talk to themselves, the whole process has slowly lost its appeal.

I've always been bad at responding to comments and for the most part it was a time issue. I know it would be helpful if i interacted more with my readers but seriously guys, I take the time to put up a post and get ONE comment?! I think i have the most selfish readers on planet earth, I swear! Let's be real here. Selfish mostly single women between the ages of 18-35. I kid, i kid but una no dey try sha.

Prism i saw your comment, thank you. I would love to share too, but i only have silent readers these days :) The kind of readers who rush my coming out of the closet post but don't bother saying a word. So i should be entertaining you people and not get anything in return.

Okay, let me not blame you guys too much, i'll take part of the blame and say i have just lost my blogging mojo because i always blogged regardless of whether i get comments or not. I've thought about officially leaving but i'm not there yet. I don't enjoy it anymore, maybe it's because of what is going on in my life and realizing this is no longer an outlet to process such things and I really don't feel connected to you guys anymore. It's just gone.

It's been over 7 years of blogging consistently, almost non-stop, the climate has changed, my audience has changed, I have changed. I have felt many different ways about blogging, but never like this.

There's no point to this post. I had no intention of blogging today. The real reason i am typing this is that i was let out of my rotation VERY early and I have an appointment in school at 230p, so i decided to kill time by writing a blog post and this, my friends is what you get.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014


Here i am thinking i just came up with a word and i googled it and found out it already exists in the urban dictionary.

This is just a quick PSA brought to you by all the Shestaches I've seen lately
Ladies! If you can see it, then it means EVERYONE else can see it
It doesn't matter if you are a white chic and you bleach it. 
We still can see it, it just looks blonde
If you are a black chic and you think those fine thin barely there hair over your lips are only visible to you
Girl, you lie! 
We can see it

Nair is your friend
Don't believe those people that tell you that if you shave hair on your face, it goes back thicker and faster
That is a lie from the pit of hell

Let's not forget those errant chin hairs that threaten to mess with your cool factor
Once again, 
Nair is your friend
If all else fails, grab a pair of tweezers
and get to plucking
but don't blame me for any hyperpigmented spots tweezing might cause
But then again
thanks to Dencia
we now have whitenicious 
Before you say Sting said you should buy Whitenicious to bleach your whole body

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