Monday, June 27, 2011

30 Day Challenge : Day 1 - 5 ways to win your heart

This might sound very shallow and trust me i have tried to get over it and i haven't succeeded but it helps greatly if a guy is easy on the eye/good looking. I'm especially partial to pretty boys. If you are aesthetically challenged, i don't think you can win my heart. I've dated one ugly guy and he has the dubious honor of being the worst guy i've ever dated. At least if a guy is being an ass i need to be able to look at him and see why i'm with him. So never again.

Everybody likes someone who can make them laugh and i'm no exception. I have a wacky sense of humor and make fun of things that are for the most part serious, that's how i deal with difficult situations. A guy who has a good sense of humor and knows how to laugh at himself would be a plus in my book

I love smart/intelligent guys. A guy who can hold a decent, intellectual conversation with me and can keep me on my toes mentally will definitely get my attention/interest. I have met many good looking guys who were eliminated simply because they couldn't carry a conversation and want to talk about stupid stuff. It's very important that you have something up there.

I'm going to lump all the mushy stuff together. A guy who is sweet, attentive, sincere, reliable and all that good stuff. Calls when he says he will, shows up when he says he will, listens, and empathizes is always a winner in my book. If he has a romantic bone in his body without being cliche, that's good too. 

Lastly, a guy who knows where he's going and how to get there, who knows what he wants and how to get it which includes getting me. Major turn off for me, unambitious/low ambition guys. I don't want to have to motivate you to go back to school and better yourself. I will definitely support your efforts but i don't want to be the nagging girlfriend who has to force you to go take ur GRE or whatever exam etc etc Complacence and mediocrity big no-no. 

So what is a sure-fire way for a guy/girl to win your heart?

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  1. Haha! U shd read my 5, i think we were def thinking a like.

  2. i think id go with you 5 for sure,
    id also add a guy who knows how to take control

  3. I love all what you love. lol

  4. All good points, i really like the one about being able to laugh at himself.

    I think by the end of this we would be able to make a master list of sure fire ways to win anyone's heart.

    My 5 points should be up sometime today.

  5. Yay culturesoup. Join the fun.

    @Laurenta: It depends on what and how he's taking control o. IF you mean like a guy who's decisive and in charge without being too controlling and domineering then i'm with you.

    @ilola : Thanks.

  6. Lol! I think that's what a typical lady wants! And hey, it's cheating to lump those together :p

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