Tuesday, February 2, 2010

I'm ready

I'm ready to
  • Auf this place for the next 6 months. I will not miss my upstairs neighbors. 
  • release the creative energy that has been silenced within me. Drawing and writing we have a date.
  • discover and understand my purpose. Medicine, u will always be my first love, but u can't be my only love
  • accept that there is a lesson to learn from my current situation. I just need to find out what the lesson is.
  •  get to know who this Sting chic really is. There is greatness in there somewhere,I just have to release it. 
I've learned
  • I can handle cold weather a lot better than i ever imagined. I have greatly surprised myself.
  • Heat included is a must but although covered parking would be nice, u can survive without it. However, don't take my word for it, i had covered parking the whole time. 
  • Driving in the snow is still scary
  • I still don't want roommates even though i hate living by myself. 
  • A 1 bedroom apartment is too spacey for me. Who needs a living room when u r hardly ever home?
  • Living room furniture is optional. Just tell ur friends you like sitting on the floor cos it keeps you grounded. 
  • A studio apartment will suit me just fine. Heat included of course. 
  • Everything will be okay, all it takes is time and patience.  
Question of the day
Can you love or fall in love with someone you have never met in person? I had my own thots on that but now i'm confused. Life is never black or white, is it? What do u guys think?


    1. LWKMD....Thought i was the only who feels that way abt 1bedroom apt...too spacious jare...love sth cosy and stuff.

      I thought i loved heat until i went to naija weeks ago....chei omo na long thing.

      No,u cant fall in love with someone u havent met in person...infatuation is one...love is anoda.

    2. LOL@ it keeps you grounded.

      Mehn this love business sef...who can understand it? Who is to say u can't fall in love with someone you've never met? In this day of video dating and technology...now remaining "in love" after you meet...lol that will be the question.

      Life Definitely ISN'T black or white...i'm all about the grays

    3. I wanna say yes you can but then if you haven't experienced things with the person how can you love them? So I will say you can't fall in love you can fall in great like.

    4. lol.
      i dont think u can fall in love with someone you have never met before.

    5. I have been deeply infatuated with someone I had never met before.... it happens...it would have developed to love if we hadn't met sooner.

    6. Yes... I believe you can fall in love with someone you have never met before...

    7. You can fall in love with someone you have never met.

    8. Yes you can or at least I did. Love is blind you know, or at least so they say.

      All the best dearie and God's grace in everything.

    9. @ "Can you love or fall in love with someone you have never met in person?" Ah!!! make una come hear o!! someone has fallen in love with a fellow blogger o!!!

    10. LMAO, it keeps you grounded. See, living in snow is not that bad eh?
      Pele. What current situation btw?

      It is possible o, it's the interesting thing about how we're affected by people's characters.

    11. Wishing you all the best as you move into things other than medicine :-)

      Yes you can fall in love with someone you have not met...that love that is based on fantasy...the only way to know if it is true love is to meet the person...

    12. You can fall in love with someone you never met. I did. We are actually married now. Conversations go a long way, especially when its concentrated time. Remember, there are different types of love too. One can bring you to the next and it keeps growing. Nice blog! (from a fellow Scorpio)

    13. I'm going with Rita...but then, time will tell if it is love or an attempt to love!:-)
      All the best in this your self discovery journey

    14. i totally agree with taynement and rita..

    15. dont you just love life lol, you learn a different thing every day. Same thing lol I thought I loved heat till i went to naij and got off the plane :)

    16. I also hate room mates, but i definitely LOVE living alone, except when i need help with my zipper or some such.

      To your question......things are really not so black or white, i for one might be in love with someone i've never met.It's wierd and crazy, but...it is what it is...

    17. I love the way you write, stingerella.

      I hope the next six months will be a time of growth and development, a time for you to find out who you are and what you want from life. I know you'll come out stronger and better for it.

      I am very interested in the responses you have received to far regarding whether or not you can fall in love with someone you've never met. I personally am on the fence about it, while a year ago I might have given you an emphatic "no".


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