Wednesday, March 26, 2014


Here i am thinking i just came up with a word and i googled it and found out it already exists in the urban dictionary.

This is just a quick PSA brought to you by all the Shestaches I've seen lately
Ladies! If you can see it, then it means EVERYONE else can see it
It doesn't matter if you are a white chic and you bleach it. 
We still can see it, it just looks blonde
If you are a black chic and you think those fine thin barely there hair over your lips are only visible to you
Girl, you lie! 
We can see it

Nair is your friend
Don't believe those people that tell you that if you shave hair on your face, it goes back thicker and faster
That is a lie from the pit of hell

Let's not forget those errant chin hairs that threaten to mess with your cool factor
Once again, 
Nair is your friend
If all else fails, grab a pair of tweezers
and get to plucking
but don't blame me for any hyperpigmented spots tweezing might cause
But then again
thanks to Dencia
we now have whitenicious 
Before you say Sting said you should buy Whitenicious to bleach your whole body

You are Welcome! 

Tuesday, March 25, 2014


Hello Lovers, strangers and friends,
I really want to apologize to you guys. It seems like 2014 has not been a good year for blogging for me. I think the main reason for that is because I went back to paper journaling because that was a better outlet for me and as a result blogging suffered. I'm not a big fan of censoring myself when i write and i wanted to be able to work through and process things without annoying anyone in the process.

As usual, life has not being butterflies and rainbows but i'm dealing. I'm taking this medical humanities elective which has gotten the right side of my brain on overdrive. I just finished editing my short story for the class and recorded myself reading it aloud and i really like the story. I'm going to get back to drawing again, i'm excited about that.

If i haven't been commenting on your blogs, it's because i haven't been reading your blog. There was a time when not a day goes by that i don't read blogs. These days, I can go days without even opening my own blog. I hope i get back into the mood to blog but i'm just going with the flow and i make no promises only apologies.

The winner for the pure romance give away is Myne.

If you are interested in keeping up with me, follow me on instagram @nigerianscorpio

I love you guys,

P.S Can someone explain to me why my COMING OUT THE CLOSET post has over a thousand views? LOL. Amebo people, you thought i was gay abi? 

Tuesday, March 18, 2014


Well guys, I've decided to stop hiding and introduce you guys to my lover. 
I just met her 2 months ago. 
She has brought so much joy and laughter into my life.
Everyone, meet my new love
crazy Philo

Follow @thefoxhimself on instagram to see more of Philomena.


Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Sexual Health (and healing)

 I had initially talked about a Pure Romance giveaway weeks ago but never followed through. The only rule was to go on the website and tell me what you would like to try. I have decided to do things a little differently this time. What i like about Pure Romance is that it's not all about sex toys. There are products that are geared towards sexual health. I understand that a lot of people find it uncomfortable to talk about sexual activity but i think it is a bit easier for me because i can be clinical and matter of fact about things. Sex is an important part of life and the second reason for most marital breakups, so why not educate yourself and save yourself some trouble.

Someone told me they went to the website but could not find anything they liked. So i've decided to pull up some things that people might find useful. Pure Romance has what they call intimacy enhancement products. I want to focus on vaginal health products, pelvic floor exercises and lubricants as these are things most women would find useful especially new moms.

Toke Makinwa's last weeks vlog was about having a healthy vagina. I didn't listen to what she said, but i gather the gist of it was how to maintain yourself. There are products for people who have day to day vaginal dryness.
Vaginal dryness is the natural enemy of your sex life, but you have a secret weapon to help take back your intimacy. Fresh Start is a gentle vaginal moisturizer that easily absorbs into your skin to keep your sensitive tissue supple.
I know for sure that some people would find the Like a Virgin 24 hour Tightener useful. I've been around the blogosphere enough to know that this might be a solution to some people's problems.
This alum-based tightening cream makes the vaginal walls contract for up to 24 hours, so you feel tighter to him and he feels larger to you.
I know we have all heard of Kegels which is an exercise used to strengthen the pelvic floor. Pelvic floor exercisers are used with kegel exercises to help further strengthen the vaginal wall. These products are good for women who are having problems with bladder control, weaker pelvic muscles after childbirth or pelvic surgery, or if you just want to experience stronger orgasms.

My sister told me that when she host parties, the number one product that people buy are not sex toys but lubricants. For a lot of women between the ages of 18-45, their bodies don't produce enough natural lubricant which can be problematic. Most lubricants are either water based or silicone based. The water based lubricants feel like a woman's natural moisture. They are water soluble, so they absorb into the vaginal tissue, help with vaginal dryness and are mild for most women. The silicone based lubricants are too large to be absorbed into the tissues, so they last longer and better for water or anal sex.

Plenty to chose from
The website has tons of other stuff, but these are things i thought might be useful to some people. I haven't personally tried any of these stuff. I just think these are good products that people might find useful.

March is my sister's birthday month, so she is having a promotion where if you buy directly from her, you get 5% off. You can buy directly from her, by sending her an email at Everything is very discreetly done, so have no fear. In case you are wondering, i have no involvement in ANYTHING, so don't worry about me knowing anything about anything. I'm too busy catching up on sleep and netflix.

She also host parties too for people interested in that, bachelorette parties, bridal showers, girls night out, birthdays whatever.

Emailing her is just if you want to get 5% off for the month of March. Otherwise, buy through this link.


We are giving away a heart massager. As you can see it can be used for both E and R rated stuff. All you need to do to win is leave a comment saying whatever you want. Tell me how you feel about sexuality, are you comfortable talking about it? Tell me whatever you want to tell me or you can just say hi. I haven't heard from a lot of people this year. Anyone who left a comment on prior posts about pure romance saying they wanted a free gift is automatically eligible. I'll randomly pick a winner on Sunday, March 16th. 

I hope on some level this post was at least informative. So tell a friend to tell a friend and remember to buy from my sista! She answer any questions you have also. She is the soul of discretion. 

Disclaimer - This is NOT a paid advertisement and I have not tried any of the products. You can try it and tell me how you like them. Help a sister out! :)


I'm suffering from full blown

Please pray for me! 

Excessive use of Netflix!!!!!

Friday, March 7, 2014

Music and Reflection

My weekend of music and reflection starts now. 
I need to finalize the details of the pure romance giveaway and i will be back.

Saturday, March 1, 2014

I survived!

Yesterday was my last day at the MICU. Total causualties that were mine - 3, I think 2-3 more people passed away on the team, so that's 6 total deaths. Way more than i had seen since i started rotations in 2012. Way too much!!!!

But I SURVIVED! Funny enough i kind of wish i was there for another week, so i was finally getting the hangs of thing and my Attending this last week was AWESOME. The best! But i was a good experience, i learnt so much, both medical stuff, social issues, end of life issues, brain death, withdrawing care, I really liked this rotation, but hating the 12 hour days and having to be on my feet most of the time.

We were supposed to give a presentation as part of our grade. The other med student on the other team, prepared and gave his to his. I never completed my power point, i went there hoping no one remembered. The other team remembered, but thankfully my team was swapped that day, so none of us was able to go for it and the other team members including their attending can't grade me, so i think i'm good. I really didn't want to do that presentation. I hate public speaking. I thought i had escaped it by not doing a PhD, but apparently it's a big part of medicine.

So how many of you have gone to the pure romance website and bought something. I know Myne did. Thanks sis. I'll be doing a give away shortly, when i get over this headache and exhaustion.
Hey guys, welcome to my blog. Sit back, relax, grab a cup of coffee and enjoy!

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