tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post8934069256814137071..comments2024-03-27T04:57:55.991-05:00Comments on Nigerian Scorpio.Com: ComplicationsNaijaScorpiohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-21153517503037354722008-08-27T13:12:00.000-05:002008-08-27T13:12:00.000-05:00Maybe you should just chill by yourself for a whil...Maybe you should just chill by yourself for a while.Elle Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16000637575173665964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-66037091651917555182008-08-27T07:31:00.000-05:002008-08-27T07:31:00.000-05:00You cant force it babes. You either manage it like...You cant force it babes. You either manage it like dat or end the relationship.<BR/>If it's not there, it isnt!princesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09206405119446956019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-69442390964153155322008-08-26T08:57:00.000-05:002008-08-26T08:57:00.000-05:00first of all, 2 marry a SS man is something no wom...first of all, 2 marry a SS man is something no woman should do casually, just cos he proposed. cos it's a union dat will try everything n her. she'd have 2 take care of him during his crisis. she's have 2 make major life alterations. she'd have 2 live wit d fear dat he could die any day. believe me, dear, it's only unconditional love dat should drive u go dat side. anything else, no do oh. so dat u will not grow resentful of d poor dude n years 2 come<BR/><BR/>as 4 Mr Sting, i'd say let it go. u r not feeling him, u r not feeling him. simple.Flourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-8425495417151988192008-08-25T20:31:00.000-05:002008-08-25T20:31:00.000-05:00awww...as sad as it might be to let go, if ur hear...awww...as sad as it might be to let go, if ur heart isnt in it anymore, its no use stringin him along..but if deep down u feel somn can change, u shud probably wait it out..<BR/><BR/>i honestly dunno if i wud marry a guy with sickle cell..his possible death wud just weigh heavy on the marriage..n if he does die.....*shudders*Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-50308228082089600252008-08-25T14:47:00.000-05:002008-08-25T14:47:00.000-05:00Buhahahaahahahaha. Sting, I'm sorry, but I had to...Buhahahaahahahaha. Sting, I'm sorry, but I had to get that off my chest. I'm laughing because I know what you're going thru: being in a relationship and literally forgetting that you are. Been there, done that. Never, EVER gonna try that nonsense again. Just like you, I did not think it properly. If I had, I woulda known that it woulda never worked out. But oh well. LOL<BR/><BR/>Buhahahahahahaha.<BR/><BR/>Oh, that was just too funny. Hehehe. And yes indeed, you're complicating your own life oh.Vera Ezimorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06387648478708776748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-75703136106457712432008-08-25T10:00:00.000-05:002008-08-25T10:00:00.000-05:00All said, very well said too; nothing more to add....All said, very well said too; nothing more to add.<BR/><BR/>Short of which, i love the way "I am just complicating....with my own 2 hands" and doing a good job at it (i dare add). <BR/><BR/>But, all in all....this will pass.<BR/><BR/>...'been a while, where art thou been?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-4898096619521550452008-08-25T01:47:00.000-05:002008-08-25T01:47:00.000-05:00wow. i'll say get out of the realtionship, if you ...wow. i'll say get out of the realtionship, if you feel this way then its not gon workdoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-80300717127853395442008-08-24T21:08:00.000-05:002008-08-24T21:08:00.000-05:00maaaaayn....take it from someone who's been thurr....maaaaayn....take it from someone who's been thurr...the long distance thin doesn't work, especially when it occurs at the start of a relationship! I totally feel u on forgetting u have a 'boifriend' ish cuz really, u don't feel lyk u've got one ryt? I'd say cut it short b4 it goes ne further n it seems lyk u were leading him on e'en tho u knew it wuz going nowerr. N wiv d s.cell guy, as sumone sed, u jus have to be firm. N if u don't already have those feelings 4 him, u shudn't feel obligated or nethin (4 lack of betta words!) hope this helps! God bless...xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-2455492538650118262008-08-24T19:12:00.000-05:002008-08-24T19:12:00.000-05:00don't waste mr sting or mr SC's time and yours. Ch...don't waste mr sting or mr SC's time and yours. Chill till you're really ready.Pearls and PeepToeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14991417250993085437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-48990120002774716672008-08-24T18:44:00.000-05:002008-08-24T18:44:00.000-05:00Well, do what you feel is right, I mean, you know ...Well, do what you feel is right, I mean, you know how you feel already. I dont think his being SS or the fact that its long distance that is the issue...seems you are not just into him....<BR/><BR/>as for the mama...chei...this kain situation just dey say "yes ma", "thank you ma" and if you no know wetin to talk, just say "God bless"Waffarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06039619178621668954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-80738269797073855742008-08-23T21:22:00.000-05:002008-08-23T21:22:00.000-05:00My dear, I was in a situation just like this early...My dear, I was in a situation just like this early last year, and I waited 6 mths to start feeling the relatonship,but nothing changed. and it was because I hadn't thought it through from the beginning. It was more of a 'i'm bored, and so are you' situation. I had to end the relationship. <BR/>It may not feel good, but if the whole thing doesn't work right with your spirit, let him go babe.ishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06112377307620987180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-26479725085396228172008-08-23T14:49:00.000-05:002008-08-23T14:49:00.000-05:00another continent ke??..thats madd yo!!..but just ...another continent ke??..thats madd yo!!..but just chill sha..dont stress ur self out it shall get better!uNWrItten*https://www.blogger.com/profile/00671759325237665759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-3494554731270505102008-08-23T12:49:00.000-05:002008-08-23T12:49:00.000-05:00too much for one heart,think through the SS thing ...too much for one heart,think through the SS thing and know that you might be nursing more than one person if u go through with it. But then Miracles surely still exist, so if your faith carries you, then you dont have a problemAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-18753647499503614042008-08-23T10:26:00.000-05:002008-08-23T10:26:00.000-05:00Hmmm. this is a serious one.Long distance relation...Hmmm. this is a serious one.Long distance relationships work but when uve given up already on it, theres no need to go on with it.<BR/>U seem to be stressed. dont take it out on urself.Naija Idolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00801089533387021990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-38343902712591570872008-08-23T07:37:00.000-05:002008-08-23T07:37:00.000-05:00I think u shd take a good look at what Abbie said....I think u shd take a good look at what Abbie said. It's not so complicated my systa<BR/><BR/>And like Afrobabe said, try and chill outThe Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-78860008117380984722008-08-23T07:26:00.000-05:002008-08-23T07:26:00.000-05:00It might be best to get it out in the open with Mi...It might be best to get it out in the open with Mister. So you can move on and stop dealing with what seems like deadwood. <BR/><BR/>I'd not worry about doing anything re: your SS friend. I think you already know the answer there.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09467664797856391600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-6573252704143368872008-08-23T06:27:00.000-05:002008-08-23T06:27:00.000-05:00long distance rships suck. if you're not feeling i...long distance rships suck. if you're not feeling it anymore, it's completely understandable.<BR/>i think you should do sthing abt it before u hurt each other seriously. <BR/>you might be the right couple but it sounds to me like the wrong time and place.<BR/><BR/>and ur other friend... well. u can't be bullied into marriage. that's that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-30296986146807375222008-08-23T04:43:00.000-05:002008-08-23T04:43:00.000-05:00Aww sweets, long distance relationships are hard, ...Aww sweets, long distance relationships are hard, but on separate continents, it's virtually impossible if you actually don't want to be in it.<BR/><BR/>At some point, is Mr. Sting planning on coming here so you guys can get married and live happily ever after or are you going to where he lives to live happily ever after?<BR/>Reason being, it's a complete waste of time to be in an intercontinental relationship knowing nothing will ever come out of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-17060508768689296572008-08-23T04:32:00.000-05:002008-08-23T04:32:00.000-05:00I for one have never been a fan of long distance r...I for one have never been a fan of long distance relationships. I just think relationships are difficult enough, without having to add time zones & zip codes to the mix.<BR/><BR/>Hope you figure out what's best for u.<BR/><BR/>As for the SS guy, hmmmm, don't even try it if you're not head over heels, crazy in love with him & strong enough to shoulder all the many consequences of SS.mizchifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11856675705278891115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-91425252079216710962008-08-22T23:06:00.000-05:002008-08-22T23:06:00.000-05:00Well my darling sting, I think if you don't think ...Well my darling sting, I think if you don't think things will work with this kindly bobo, and you want to be free to date other guys, then you should let him know in a more direct way (none of this "I don't think things are working out" ish because someone can easily take that to mean "Well, she doesn't <EM>think</EM> it's working out but it is, or it will, and I'll show her!" and we can't have that.<BR/><BR/>If, even after you tell him directly that you want out, he still wants to kick it with you, then that's his decision. When you know you're ready to be in a relationship with someone that thrills you, then you just tell him and hopefully he'll take the hint and go.<BR/><BR/>The reason why I wanted you to give this guy a chance is because from your writings, it seems like you have a habit of going for guys who treat you like absolute crap. Therefore, when you're faced with someone a bit blander, who treats you like gold, it can be really unnerving and seem strange and boring. This guy won't curse you out if you slam the phone down on him. He won't play mind games and only call you when he's bored or his other woman on the side is busy. For someone used to drama, I can see how Mr. Sting sounds really strange.<BR/><BR/>Anyways sha, what I'm trying to say that if you feel in your heart that this guy isn't IT for you, no shaking, tell him goodbye. But if you think it's just weird because he's not like the usual guys you date, well good things could come from it.<BR/><BR/>The vibe I'm getting is You're Just Not That Into Him! If you were, you'd do what you have to do to save up and visit.<BR/><BR/>Finally, <STRONG>you're too nice</STRONG>. You don't have to be mean to the mother of the guy with sickle cell but you can tell his mother that unfortunately you are not feeling him. Maybe I'm just too direct?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-69416450215004839452008-08-22T16:45:00.000-05:002008-08-22T16:45:00.000-05:00SS no be beans oh.u have to love him and be mighty...SS no be beans oh.u have to love him and be mighty patient big time,its not a joke at all.be very string infactQMoneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01569868117819979932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-80954981302567985172008-08-22T16:38:00.000-05:002008-08-22T16:38:00.000-05:00Dint you just say you don't like long distance r's...Dint you just say you don't like long distance r'ships, y r you now considering d guy with Sickle cell???<BR/><BR/>If you cant even say you have a boyfriend, then end the r'ship, n don't waste your resources.<BR/><BR/>Cos if you are not feeling a guy you are not feeling him. <BR/><BR/>I was in a r'ship like that for almost a year. D guy dint wrong me oh, but I just dint see myself having a future with him. N i wasn't feeling him, even after 6 months. Haba! it shouldn't take that long to feel something.<BR/><BR/>Be strong deariee.O'Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07678018050951152616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-39666727882500348702008-08-22T16:27:00.000-05:002008-08-22T16:27:00.000-05:00if u dont feel that way, then u dont have to. and ...if u dont feel that way, then u dont have to. and its a lifetime decision, so dont take pity cos of the ss stuff.Zayzeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11907709431101967094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-32740832682735040892008-08-22T16:17:00.000-05:002008-08-22T16:17:00.000-05:00Hmmmm maybe u should just chill out...sounds to me...Hmmmm maybe u should just chill out...<BR/><BR/>sounds to me like the sickle cell thing is actually a problem cos as u said If u loved him...if u love him u can make him accepted by your folks..I dont even see any reason why they need to know...Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-9657944331424868292008-08-22T15:57:00.000-05:002008-08-22T15:57:00.000-05:00I think you should just relax and not over think t...I think you should just relax and not over think these things. things are 'complicated" as it is, no need to add ur friend to the mix.bumighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16921134538404613210noreply@blogger.com