tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post1251002817633877905..comments2024-03-27T04:57:55.991-05:00Comments on Nigerian Scorpio.Com: DramaNaijaScorpiohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-41004705096364602522011-11-13T17:37:46.119-06:002011-11-13T17:37:46.119-06:00Poor you Sting and in the middle of your jacking. ...Poor you Sting and in the middle of your jacking. No mind devil. He cant win. I have blogged about smoke detecting wives/gfs before. The most annoying female species on earth.<br />well, what's done is done and like you concluded, your friendship was already on a countdown with that kinda gal.<br />like ships that pass by at night and all that jazz, this too has come to an end. Abeg, no regrets!!Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10294850491382303707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-38086083012144373852011-11-11T16:24:18.992-06:002011-11-11T16:24:18.992-06:00I would probably not have reacted like you but i w...I would probably not have reacted like you but i would have been equally furious. I get what people mean by saying he had to defend his girlfriend but who was going to defend you from their disrespectful behaviour if you didn't do it?<br /><br />I couldn't get past that first call where he put you on speaker for the girlfriend to hear. I would have found that very humiliating. There was nowhere else to go but down from there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-90892263412065200372011-11-11T10:41:41.638-06:002011-11-11T10:41:41.638-06:00Read your follow up post and it would seem you two...Read your follow up post and it would seem you two are no longer friends and in the end she "won". I guess? Since that is what she wanted.<br /><br />That aside, you're right everyone is different. I HAVE been in a situation in college where a girl thought I was a "threat" and decided to contact me. First it happened over AIM (when ppl used to use that of course) she used his account to IM me pretending to him and trying to "start something".<br /><br />Then she added me on Fcbk with a "fake" account and started asking me about him. FINALLY she just called me to tell me to stay away from him.<br /><br />I never got mad at her, mostly because I knew it was her insecurity with the relationship and I actually felt SORRY for her. I felt bad she had to resort to all that instead of facing the trust issues in their relationship.<br /><br />Sidenote, the guy ended up cheating on her anyway, multiple times (with other girls, not me). So she did have reason to be worried. I always knew he was like that which is why we remained just friends.<br /><br />So, my opinion, for all those people saying they would curse her out as well, WHY BOTHER? That will only make you look bad AND validate her sense that you're after him. <br /><br />Be the mature one let her exhaust herself with her drama.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03368391384597746654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-76134298328285854482011-11-11T10:37:47.387-06:002011-11-11T10:37:47.387-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03368391384597746654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-39124864590274741942011-11-11T09:50:59.647-06:002011-11-11T09:50:59.647-06:00@mikki: I definitely agree I could have handled it...@mikki: I definitely agree I could have handled it that way but I've never been a cool headed person. I'm much better than I was as a teenager so let's hope I become more cool headed in my next decade.NaijaScorpiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-30712356871939290482011-11-11T08:49:33.181-06:002011-11-11T08:49:33.181-06:00OMG Wow... I have ALMOST been in that kind of situ...OMG Wow... I have ALMOST been in that kind of situation but we are very different... I have that molten kind of anger.... You don't know it's hot til it's Burning you alive... lol<br /><br />AS for the girl.. I would not have exploded on her... she is not worth it. Im thinking more of a mocking and pitying approach. who has time for childish behaviors. after "however long she has been dating" she needs to understand that there are things she just cannot get about our culture. and if ever she wants to have peace of mind she needs to start studying up and asking questions b4 she starts feeling disrespected...twww.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10457985971554698831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-38032421984815081082011-11-11T05:16:22.229-06:002011-11-11T05:16:22.229-06:00i read your response to me and your newer post and...i read your response to me and your newer post and i totally agree with you. he shouldn't have put you on a three way call or allowed her call you. i mean he should be man enough to handle his relationship and what is love without trust anyways?<br /><br />that said i wished you apologized but hey/....if you guys are ready to sacrifice the friendship then its ok<br /><br />sha take it easy and go back to studying<br /><br />cheersdoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-86141813822089721582011-11-10T15:17:41.514-06:002011-11-10T15:17:41.514-06:00I like your blog a lot. Check out mine http://love...I like your blog a lot. Check out mine http://lovestolosecontrol.blogspot.com/<br />And the answer is no the girl has some serious issues and needs to trust her fiance. And you're her fiances friend you knew each other before she came in the picture so she should calm down. Your friend was right for sticking up for his women but he wouldn't of needed to if she didn't call you. And you too wouldn't have that problem.FeliciaShortiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07757021567006083066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-81907463415528399442011-11-10T11:07:47.769-06:002011-11-10T11:07:47.769-06:00Ok I'm laughing in Cantonese. Or should I laug...Ok I'm laughing in Cantonese. Or should I laugh in...whatever lil' bitch's language is? I can just imagine what my reaction would be in that situation. The nerve of her!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09467664797856391600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-91809316137386445532011-11-10T10:56:50.118-06:002011-11-10T10:56:50.118-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Janyl Benylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097032839301881132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-47185888288007333922011-11-10T10:55:37.137-06:002011-11-10T10:55:37.137-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Janyl Benylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097032839301881132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-16604504272324114282011-11-10T10:36:09.165-06:002011-11-10T10:36:09.165-06:00@EDJ: I didn't call her a bitch when i was spe...@EDJ: I didn't call her a bitch when i was speaking to her. However, i did tell her to go to hell and that i would speak to my friend not her. I referred to her as a little bitch when i was speaking to her fiance. I wish i had called her a bitch though because it would have taught her a valuable lesson. Maybe next time she would think twice before picking up the phone to call someone she doesn't know and mouth rubbish. <br /><br />As for it being handled in a less dramatic manner. It's possible it could have been, if it happened to someone else. It is what it is, and i am who i am. I make no apologies for that especially not in this instance. <br /><br />@Doll: Not apologizing. I was given an ultimatum to apologize for REFERRING to his fiancee as a bitch or not be friends anymore and i chose the latter. You can't start stuff with me and then give me an ultimatum just because i didn't react in the way you wanted. If she had minded her business and left me out of her relationship drama, i would never have had the OPPORTUNITY or reason to refer to her as a bitch. Like i told my friend, i apologize for referring to her as a bitch, what i should have done was call her a jealous bitch to her face. He got an apology but not the one he wanted.NaijaScorpiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-52663040911617720972011-11-10T10:07:30.828-06:002011-11-10T10:07:30.828-06:00she shouldn't have called you there is no doub...she shouldn't have called you there is no doubt about that, but you shouldn't have called her a bitch.<br /><br />i mean what do you expect your friend to say when you are calling his wife to be a bitch and him a pussy, now that negates everything she said or whatever. <br /><br />if you respected your friend and cherished your friendship with him you should have just ignored her rantings. i think you should apologizedoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-2132433483326391072011-11-10T09:00:11.875-06:002011-11-10T09:00:11.875-06:00Principalities and powers. Evil forces of distract...Principalities and powers. Evil forces of distraction...#DEAD hahahaha may i not be sacked for LORL!!! at work. Nah mehn, this post is HILARIOUS!<br /><br />Well sha, its obvious the chic is insecure so just ignore her. lol i'lld have done what you did too sha.<br />But even though she shouldn't have called you, you shouldn't have called her names to his face...to her face, yeah definitely, you can insult the living daylight out of her but to his face nah...he definitely would have had to defend his chic.<br /><br />no vex again ehn honey boo boo and sorry for laughing but the post funny sha.Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15702923344859888773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-26069311678459396682011-11-10T08:55:35.454-06:002011-11-10T08:55:35.454-06:00To answer your question, "is it ever okay...&...To answer your question, "is it ever okay..." SOMETIMES IT IS. Depends on the conversation.<br /><br />However in this case, I think both of you are wrong. To be completely honest, I think your reaction was over the top. <br /><br />Cursing BOTH of them out makes you look bad. Perhaps even worse than she does because you are "just a friend" and she is the "future wife". You had added fuel to a fire that could probably have been put out with a simple straightforward non-emotional conversation. <br /><br />I didn't get this from the post but did she start cursing you out before you called her a bitch?? Or you just got irritated that she talked to you and your response was to insult her to the person she is going to marry and THEN insult him?<br /><br />If you're going to be friends with someone you can't exclude their partner. He plans to spend the rest of his life with this person (I suppose) and it seems to me that if you make him choose he will probably choose her over you. <br /><br />I think there was a better, less dramatic, way to handle this.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03368391384597746654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-21675772165763120722011-11-10T08:45:45.906-06:002011-11-10T08:45:45.906-06:00PS For the record this has happened to me and the ...PS For the record this has happened to me and the problem that time was actually my blog, chai. It was all going down between the couple and I didnt find out till later that my friend was now 'banned' from being alone with me LMAO!!!!!!CaramelDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11522210227708538405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-17358179440987876772011-11-10T08:43:59.119-06:002011-11-10T08:43:59.119-06:00You see the thing is a couple should keep all thei...You see the thing is a couple should keep all their crazy couple nuttiness between tehmselves! They could have had it out without you not having a clue what was going on. She shouldn't have called you and you shouldn't have wasted your breath insulting her and your friend. I'm not sure about your friend's personality but I hope you both can move on from this soon.CaramelDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11522210227708538405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-76740091338323416792011-11-10T08:26:07.009-06:002011-11-10T08:26:07.009-06:00No. She had no business calling you. Unfortunately...No. She had no business calling you. Unfortunately, your friendship with her fiancé may now be over. I hope not. Good friends are hard to find.Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18124188553463117063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-69597436737131108822011-11-10T05:14:10.574-06:002011-11-10T05:14:10.574-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.alotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-79135383330639086112011-11-10T05:13:25.389-06:002011-11-10T05:13:25.389-06:00She definitely crossed the line by calling u..
I ...She definitely crossed the line by calling u..<br /><br />I can imagine how upsetting it was for u but i dont think u shld have insulted her and even ur friend..no need for that. then again I wonder what I would have done in your shoes. <br /><br />i hope u and ur friend don't loose ur friendship over this..<br /><br />hugssssalotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-68261134225880862182011-11-10T04:02:17.910-06:002011-11-10T04:02:17.910-06:00to echo what everyone else has been saying, it com...to echo what everyone else has been saying, it completely inappropriate. <br /><br />I'm sure things will work out with your friend eventually.Pretty Lasheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07463769457804516979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-62739345320106498682011-11-10T03:58:35.311-06:002011-11-10T03:58:35.311-06:00I would have told her - Sweetheart, I have been hi...I would have told her - Sweetheart, I have been his friend LOOONG before you showed up. <br /><br />I don't interfere when you are talking to your boyfriend so don't interfere when I am talking to my FRIEND. <br /><br />Afterall, are you Nigerian? Do you speak Pidgin? How do you know how I was talking to him?<br /><br />Nonsense and ingredientSugabellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17943638849867603413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-49747200395776838132011-11-10T02:39:43.690-06:002011-11-10T02:39:43.690-06:00The chic had no right to contact you. She has seri...The chic had no right to contact you. She has serious insecurity issues and its obvious she is an extremely jealous person. On the other hand i understand how she feels because i have been there before but she didn't have to call you. That is totally unacceptable.<br /><br />Nice blog!Atoskinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337737317272174292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-64112111973181118752011-11-09T22:24:21.883-06:002011-11-09T22:24:21.883-06:00pssssssh....no..its not okay!!i will straight hang...pssssssh....no..its not okay!!i will straight hang up...i will not even waste insults on her...i don't know why some chicks are like that...yaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00729626130352523112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-74782322842802781812011-11-09T20:36:31.006-06:002011-11-09T20:36:31.006-06:00Frankly, she has no business calling you. If she h...Frankly, she has no business calling you. If she had a problem with the way the conversation went,she should have addressed it with her MAN, not you.<br /><br />Boyfriend shouldnt have allowed his chic to call you. Especially not on his phone..I mean...worrahell?!<br /><br />However, I don't think you should have told the boyfriend that his chic is a bitch....under that circumstance. I can't help understanding his need to be defensive at that point because frankly, he must have felt like he was between the devil and the deep blue sea...somehow.<br /><br />But, at the same rate, he should have understood ur anger and should have kept mum about you calling him and her names. It might have been best if he had let it slide and then broached it after the dust had settled.<br /><br />IT all started with the girl though...wetin concern her agbero with overload?!mchew!HoneyDamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06630155612892969091noreply@blogger.com