tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post292542064456071745..comments2024-03-27T04:57:55.991-05:00Comments on Nigerian Scorpio.Com: (non) Virgins?NaijaScorpiohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-14677981694106413202011-03-17T18:19:07.284-05:002011-03-17T18:19:07.284-05:00I agree with you-100%I agree with you-100%Chic Therapyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11426669813215415757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-13738967975785352602011-03-14T19:01:57.175-05:002011-03-14T19:01:57.175-05:00Yeah, for myself it would come down to who I was t...Yeah, for myself it would come down to who I was trying to convince. If it's myself, I might have a credibility issue. If it's some patriarch who thinks he has a right to kill me if my hymen intact, then only the provable standard of virginity would be relevant, so yeah, in that case hymen = virgin.tattytiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18408220720084181008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-27925528414082897912011-03-14T11:25:50.710-05:002011-03-14T11:25:50.710-05:00this is serious o. dont know what to say, but i th...this is serious o. dont know what to say, but i think that virgins can do better and keep their mouths shut. its between them and them. the whole world doesnt have to know. <br />and u said it right. when a man has seen u naked, what is the whole essence? committing iniquity aint no different from other category of sinZayzeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11907709431101967094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-1837002370614485502011-03-14T10:03:56.665-05:002011-03-14T10:03:56.665-05:00hmm. virginity!!!
well, before i had penetrative ...hmm. virginity!!!<br /><br />well, before i had penetrative sex, i had been kissed and fingered and i considered myself a virgin till my hymen was torn.<br /><br />so i guess its subjective and we all define it to suit ourselvesdoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-55573976535092695752011-03-13T23:56:41.010-05:002011-03-13T23:56:41.010-05:00very interesting post and comments. I agree with t...very interesting post and comments. I agree with those that say virginity shouldn't be an issue even..Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-32559811728399541812011-03-13T23:25:27.590-05:002011-03-13T23:25:27.590-05:00Madam Sting - we need more posts like this one o! ...Madam Sting - we need more posts like this one o! All in favor say AYE!<br />p.s u know who this is lol how were exams na?<br /><br />My take - you're partly right. The definition of virginity is really a personal matter IMO. Whoever wants to claim the v-card for whatever reason, its on their own head. The grey area btw v or non v status is too much abeg - but for me - any kind of penetration don confirm say u don graduate.okonyahouseboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00128358890006460509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-20953082029868275532011-03-13T19:12:07.454-05:002011-03-13T19:12:07.454-05:00I thought that was why the term 'Technical Vir...I thought that was why the term 'Technical Virgins' was invented. Everything but....<br /><br />Funny post Ma'm Sting.<br />I remember a girl in my secondary school coming to announce to the dorm at her first kiss 'i have dis-virgined by lips' (off point but KitKat's comment reminded me of it).Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10294850491382303707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-13541535189463969702011-03-13T14:38:36.080-05:002011-03-13T14:38:36.080-05:00...so on point! i concur with ALL you said! it lea......so on point! i concur with ALL you said! it leaves me confused at times the way people stress out about being virgins! Abeggiii, TELL ME o jare! who dem dey deceive? GOD or themselves?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-4106302602055325972011-03-13T07:50:40.767-05:002011-03-13T07:50:40.767-05:00@shorty: I agree. Thanks, i survived 2nd block. Ge...@shorty: I agree. Thanks, i survived 2nd block. Gearing up for third block. <br /><br />@Vyvyka: Thanks so much for the award. <br /><br />@LEggy: How art thou? It's been a minute. Thanks, my exams were good. <br /><br />@Prism: Sex really get levels. LOL @ physical and spiritual levels. <br /><br />@Funms: Of course someone who broke their hymen from horse riding is still a virgin, unless the horse was a man :)<br /><br />@Sisi Yemmie: LOL...i think it's a state of mind for some o!<br /><br />@Mamuje: LMAO. She definitely no serious. <br /><br />@Lady Ngo: Thanks for the award. <br /><br />@Shade: That's my problem with these people. The hypocrisy of it. First year of university, this chic who was friends with one of my best friends, was claiming virginity and bragging about it too. I ended up being friends with the best friend of the guy that was gbenshing this chic, so i got information. My friend was still bragging on this chic's behalf and i told her to sharrap and check her facts before she talks about someone. The news came out sha, they traced it back to me but i didn't care cos she was just being a big liar. I don't know why it's a big achievement that people have to lie about. <br /><br />@Chizy K: Thanks for the award.<br /><br />@Mizchif: Thanks o! It almost swallowed me. Na wa for those people. <br /><br />@Iwalewa:) Okay, let's agree to disagree that virginity is a state of mind. Where the state dey. Just like my friend was telling me yesterday of chic who have grooved life, decide to settle down and become born again. After staying celibate for a year, they will now claim old things are past away and say they are virgins cos it was in the past. I don't agree with that logic o. As long as you have had sex, Jesus might forgive you, but it is what it is. You don't grow back your hymen and erase all ur escapades from your memory, do u?<br />When this chic is servicing her husband with skills she gained from her old days, old things have most certainly not past away. <br />Like Mrs. Newlywed said, i totally agree that virginity should be in percentages. Can you compare someone who has never been with a man in any capacity with someone who had given and received oral and been fingered. So when the totally chaste person is talking about virginity, the one who has been fingered will still be talking? Well, she can talk, but just not loudly. Just sofry dey talk am.NaijaScorpiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-57712722275147090402011-03-12T23:44:24.344-06:002011-03-12T23:44:24.344-06:00Okay I'm back!!! I really like this post but s...Okay I'm back!!! I really like this post but sorry I don't agree with everything you said(maybe I'm just saying this so that my "experiences will be excluded" like LadyNgo said but I don't care)...I'm really starting to believe that virginity is a state of mind(don't know if that makes sense)...anyways most people have their own ways of defining virginity like it depends if you're giving us the christian/bible definition, dictionary definition or the world's definition like forbidn2us said...In my own opinion, you're still a virgin if you've given or received oral sex, been fingered or even licked from head to toe(sorry) but I DON'T believe that you're a virgin if you've had anal sex...<br /><br />BTW...I said virginity is a state of mind cause some girls that were raped still claim that they're virgins and I agree.....Tiaraoluwa (Of God's Body)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06766505979289824583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-61004227680267012772011-03-12T22:07:51.399-06:002011-03-12T22:07:51.399-06:00YAY!!!! She's back and exams did not swallow h...YAY!!!! She's back and exams did not swallow her.<br /><br />I love the frankness of this post.<br />Before, i'd have said that anybody that hasn't had penetrative sex (vaginal or anal) could still be considered a virgin, but now that you mentioned lesbians, i guess that statement is not so valid.<br /><br />I honestly do not see why virginity is such a big deal and why people feel like they have to lie about it. There is no prize.<br />However certain cultures place heavy value on the whole virgin matter thereby encouraging this hypocrisy and self-denial.<br /><br />Well, to each their own.<br /><br />Enjoy your break dear.mizchifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11856675705278891115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-50426850498206345852011-03-12T17:18:15.102-06:002011-03-12T17:18:15.102-06:00Hi darling i just gave you an award, go to my blog...Hi darling i just gave you an award, go to my blog <br />http://chizys-spyware.blogspot.com <br />to claim it. xoxoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761571871995656999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-73380421099717350942011-03-12T15:56:30.972-06:002011-03-12T15:56:30.972-06:00I can't help but laugh at this. Interesting st...I can't help but laugh at this. Interesting stuff..<br /><br />My own issue is why being a virgin is seen as a status symbol? Like seriously. You've achieved what? You've solved the world's problems? It's a different thing if someone says they're remaining a virgin because of a pact they made with God (because in all honesty God tells us to only have sex within the confines of marriage). I respect that. I'm all for that. But it becomes problematic and hypocritical when you claim to be a virgin because you want to form "holy holy". That's just silly. People need to stop letting others define them by their sexuality. That just irks me. I also think that "culture" can be such a problem. It's amazing how it promotes oppression and double standards...<br /><br />And per anal sex (raped in the ass without lube or condom just kills me, wow), I've had discussions with friends/acquaintances and read articles that say it depends on the techniques used for anal sex so that said sex is done safely...Oh well...<br /><br />Haha @ "Call me old school, sexually repressed, unadventurous or even a prude."Shadenonconformhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09684872244505806973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-89749607085535309292011-03-12T15:28:34.218-06:002011-03-12T15:28:34.218-06:00Madame Sting- there is one award awaiting you for ...Madame Sting- there is one award awaiting you for my blog now. come and check it out (though Vyvyka has given u the same one already lol)<br />ladyngo.blogspot.comLadyNgohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00875332361921132497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-11073049593375987202011-03-12T11:27:47.804-06:002011-03-12T11:27:47.804-06:00The girl dey craze, tell am say na me talk so. You...The girl dey craze, tell am say na me talk so. You give and receive oral or have anal sex and claim you are a virgin? There isn't an argument. They are not virgins. End of story. Even if na only your breat dem suck sef, virginity don cancel be that. PshieuwwwwwMamujehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03742203895366744189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-29671715273565600022011-03-12T10:52:42.259-06:002011-03-12T10:52:42.259-06:00abegg oh She don do pass some people wey don marry...abegg oh She don do pass some people wey don marry for 30yrs sef....If she has done all of that where then is the virginity???lol. Is it a state of mind???LMAO!!!!!!Sisi Yemmiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350113579849499656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-60168271831669638542011-03-12T10:40:34.678-06:002011-03-12T10:40:34.678-06:00like you said, everyone defines it to suit their c...like you said, everyone defines it to suit their circumstance....well medically, they say one is still a virgin as long as the hymen is intact....what if it breaks from say horse riding? is the person still a virgin?<br /><br />i think your friend's friend should stop claiming jor...she sounds experienced as they come so to me, she's not a virginRebirthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10521888528235024119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-3376853998826665392011-03-12T10:24:34.710-06:002011-03-12T10:24:34.710-06:00From a physical standpoint, sex get levels. A girl...From a physical standpoint, sex get levels. A girl who has only kissed is different from a girl who has done oral. In my opinion, there's no difference btw anal and vaginal sex.<br /><br />From a spiritual standpoint, I don't know how many virgins are on this planet. All our fantasies alone disqualifies almost everyone.Prism of an Immigranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05290173306236432691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-69476082481378053542011-03-12T09:38:15.548-06:002011-03-12T09:38:15.548-06:00lmao.
hope your exams went well oh?
good to have y...lmao.<br />hope your exams went well oh?<br />good to have you back.leggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989088139010700349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-28454081462698946402011-03-12T07:50:03.592-06:002011-03-12T07:50:03.592-06:00I have tagged you in the One lovely blog award. Ch...I have tagged you in the One lovely blog award. Check my blog to claim it<br />http://www.strategicchic.comChop Street Londonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905096640683365929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-72161345602654459112011-03-12T07:13:57.005-06:002011-03-12T07:13:57.005-06:00Lol some people are funny sha. Hope your exams wen...Lol some people are funny sha. Hope your exams went well? Enjoy your break :)shortyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11495597670655767080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-7161429760907329492011-03-12T07:06:29.598-06:002011-03-12T07:06:29.598-06:00@Nikkisho: Thanks jare.
@Tiwa-boy: I'm glad ...@Nikkisho: Thanks jare. <br /><br />@Tiwa-boy: I'm glad i'm not the only one who thinks that. <br /><br />@forbidn2us: I can only begin to imagine the antics u get up to in the bedroom since u think we r sexually repressed :) I don't think that just because someone has given oral sex she's no longer a virgin. I think we should go with Mrs. Newlywed's idea. Cos after sucking dick, i'm sorry, ur viginity status should drop like 10%. <br />So u r telling me that if someone has done it all, even fingered to orgasmic heights, just because a dick wasn't stuck in there, she can still claim virgin status? I don't agree with that o. So that means all gay and lesbian people who have only been with same sex are virgins? <br /><br />@Vyvyka: Yes Mrs. Newlywed has the best idea right there. My exams went well and i agree that we should be real with ourselves. Thanks.NaijaScorpiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-1796879553232426412011-03-12T06:31:49.402-06:002011-03-12T06:31:49.402-06:00lol@ Mrs Newlywed...Madamme sting, hope your exams...lol@ Mrs Newlywed...Madamme sting, hope your exams went well. Can see you back with a bang. lol..lol..my own is, people should be real!Chop Street Londonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905096640683365929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-75339648927469682262011-03-12T02:55:51.121-06:002011-03-12T02:55:51.121-06:00OMG yall are just sexually repressed females.... l...OMG yall are just sexually repressed females.... lol, so if you have oral sex with a man, does that mean that the girl is no more a virgin because she sucked his dick? (excuse my languguage). you cant go around calling a spade a tractor, it doesnt make sense. <br />the first thing is you have to decide on what definition of virgin you are deciding to us? are you using the webster definition or you are using your own make shift definition as to what you think a virgin is???? Abeg oh. <br />technically, a virgin is a person who hasnt had sexual intercourse with a man (sexual intercourse is the act of sexual procreation between a man and a woman; the man's penis is inserted into the woman's vagina and excited until orgasm and ejaculation occur) it basically is a the process of making a baby.<br />the last time i checked i dont believe babies get formed in the mouth or in the anus. <br />yeah, they may be very freaking virgins but no dick in vagina, then they still are virgins. <br />anyways, that my 1 dollar coin on the issue, i would appreciate it if my comment isnt censored thank you very much. <br /><br />and btw to all virgins, spoiler alert, the first time you do have sex, you would surely be disappointed, you would hate the fact that the build up and fantasy you had in your head was not as cracked up to be what you though it to be, its a case of Expectations Vs Reality. but it only gets better, you would eventually learn to love it ardently and passionately, especially with the right person. <br /><br />p.s. check out my blog<br />lovelife4sale.blogspot.comlovelife4salehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15047608615616800085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2560444965847331936.post-50591008477755909272011-03-12T00:19:49.825-06:002011-03-12T00:19:49.825-06:00Absolutely, anal sex is a bigger deal than virgina...Absolutely, anal sex is a bigger deal than virginal sex. Anal sex is like getting a Phd in sex. Claiming to be a virgin after be....fcked in the ass is living a lie.Tiwa-boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11855604045799124519noreply@blogger.com